MP Tracy Brabin tells Commons of the moment a man tried to rape her

Labour’s Tracy Brabin, who was elected at Batley and Spen, following the murder of Jo Cox, shared her personal story during a Commons debate focused on UN International Day For The Elimination Of Violence Against Women.

She said: “I was 20 and the worst thing that I could ever imagine happening to me was about to take place.

“I was going to be one of those very rare statistics of a woman who is attacked by a stranger, not by someone she knows.

“I was in my second year at university, the man had seen me walk past his car and had waited ahead for me to turn the corner.

“As I came up against him all those words of advice your mum gives you - knee him where it hurts then run like hell - well they disappeared, I was frozen in fear.

“As he shoved me to the ground trying to rape me, I fought back but I was battered.

“It was only the community-spirited Indian neighbour further down the road that saved me from something much worse.”

The former Coronation Street actress said she counted herself as “one of the lucky ones” and that the perpetrator was brought to justice.

She said: “He was sentenced. I didn’t have to look over my shoulder, checking if he was following me.

“He was a stranger. I didn’t have to wake up in the same bed as him, go to work with him as my boss.

“He didn’t use a broken bottle to hurt me. He was alone and not with a group of other men.

“It was only once and not several times.”

Ms Brabin also told MPs about the impact the incident had on her life.

She said: “The point to this story is that even though on the scale of violence against women I was lucky because justice was done the following few years were hard.

“I got afraid walking alone so I bought a bike. I got scared in the night. I slept with a knife. I was easily startled and cried at the drop of a hat.”

She urged the Government to do more to combat violence against women.

“We need joined up thinking on this issue,” she said.

“We need to educate young men on consent and respect for women, empower women who are suffering domestic abuse to leave, offering them a safe place to go, refuse to accept online abuse and I applaud the minister’s work on making stalking a crime either online or in person.”

Another MP moved colleagues to tears after revealing she was raped at 14, telling the Commons: “I’m not a victim, I’m a survivor.”

Independent Michelle Thomson (Edinburgh West) was comforted by former SNP colleagues at the end of her speech, with Speaker John Bercow visibly moved.

Ms Thomson told the debate: “When I was 14 I was raped. As is common, it was by somebody who was known to me.

“He had offered to walk me home from a youth event and in those days everybody walked everywhere, it was quite common to do that.

“It was early evening, it wasn’t dark. I was wearing - I’m imagining, I’m guessing - jeans and a sweatshirt.”

Ms Thomson said she knew the area but they went a slightly different way, noting: “I didn’t think anything of it.

“He told me he wanted to show me something in a wooded area and at that point, I must admit, I was alarmed. I did have a warning bell - but I overrode that warning bell because I knew him and therefore there was a level of trust in place.

“To be honest, looking back, at that point I don’t think I knew what rape was. It was not something that was talked about.”

Ms Thomson added: “It was mercifully quick and I remember first of all feeling surprise, then fear, then horror as I realised I quite simply couldn’t escape - because he was stronger than me, and there was no sense even initially of any sexual desire from him, which I suppose, looking back, again I find odd.”

Ms Thomson said her senses were “absolutely numbed”, telling MPs: “Thinking about it now, 37 years later, I cannot remember hearing anything when I replay it in my mind.

“Now, as somebody who is an ex-professional musician who is very, very auditory, I find that quite telling.”

She said that afterwards she walked home alone crying, cold and shivering as she was in shock.

Ms Thomson said: “I didn’t tell my mother, I didn’t tell my father, I didn’t tell my friends and I didn’t tell the police. I bottled it all up inside me.

“I hoped, briefly and appallingly, that I might be pregnant so that would force a situation to help me control it.”

Ms Thomson said she felt “ashamed” that she had “allowed this to happen to me”, debating internally what had happened.

She added: “I felt I was spoiled and impure and really felt revulsion towards myself.

“I, of course, then detached from the child up to then I had been.

“Although, in reality, at the age of 14 it was probably the start of my sexual awakening, at that time, remembering back, sex was something that men did to women and perhaps this incident reinforced that early belief.”

Labour MP Jess Phillips (Birmingham Yardley) said “massive credit” should be paid to the MPs who have shared their personal stories.

She said: “I think it is really, really powerful to show that victims of domestic violence, sexual violence, for so many people they look like somebody else, they look like others, when in fact they are all of us, they are everybody, they are living on our streets, we are sitting next to them at work, we are talking to them on the school run. They are everywhere.

“And I pay huge tribute to those who have done that today, the memorable women in here will certainly resonate with people out there.”