Modern Dilemmas: Some sound advice for stressed out bride-to-be

Also, we seem to be bickering more, which I think is just stress. I just wish we were done with everything already. I just want to marry my fianc and start our lives together. How can I get through it?

I don't think I've met anyone who has had a totally stress-free wedding. However, there is much you can do that will not only improve things but also focus you on the happiness of the occasion.

The first thing is to decide that you do need help and to ease you into this concept, write down a list of family and friends who would gladly lend a hand. Next to each name delegate at least one task and then pick the most organised person on your list to be your right hand from today up until you leave for your honeymoon. Whoever you chose will be the "go-to" person for everyone else.

Asking each person for help will make them feel special and, if you choose wisely, might help the family issues dissolve, too. Get your fianc to be in charge of the budget and agree to cut costs or get creative so you don't start married life in debt. Another important agreement between you and your fianc is to have wedding free evenings together. Even when you feel there is still so much to do, taking time away from the subject will give you both some much needed romantic space and renew your wedding energy. It's important to have as much fun as you can in the run-up to your day.

On the day, know that even when something goes wrong, and it will, that it is still one of the most remarkable days of your life. Make sure you and your husband take a moment out just for yourselves to take it all in and clock the moment. Make a pact to have a ball and your guests will, too. All that matters is that the two of you share your joy with each other and those you love.

Alexandra Watson is a leading Happiness Coach and best-selling author. If you have a modern dilemma, ask Alex by going to www.AlexandraWatson.com