Hilary Benn: We came together to salute Mandela and courage of those who stood with him

In truth, the words we reach for to try and describe his achievements seem not to match the scale of the task or do justice to what he achieved, the feelings we hold for him and the memories we have of both.

In Leeds, we have our memory of that day in April 2001 when he came to our city to receive its freedom – the highest honour we were able to bestow.

We cheered his arrival in a packed Millennium Square as he climbed the stage and, in his characteristic way, paused to greet every person who was on it, including the children who had been singing.

Everyone mattered and everyone was included.

He then addressed us, and he began with these immortal words: “It is wonderful to be here in Liverpool.”

There are other occasions on which uttering those words in Leeds could get you into some difficulty, but did we care?

No, we did not: we cheered him all the more, because it was a privilege to be there in that throng to see a man who had made history.

Whether in public or in 
private, Nelson Mandela 
was that same man: he was 
calm, he was dignified, he was resolute, he was unfailingly courteous.

It is no wonder that he was an inspiration to so many people, because, with grace, he showed that belief makes everything possible.

However, as we have heard, it did not always seem so, and so as we remember one man’s extraordinary life, each of us recalls – including how our lives were intertwined with his.

Although the House of Commons speaks with one 
voice in tribute, it was not always so. Those who marched to Trafalgar Square or stood on the pavement outside South Africa House were not treated as heroes – indeed, some regarded us, them and him as dangerous extremists.

My colleague Peter Hain, the anti-apartheid campaigner, gave us a reminder by reading out those petty, demeaning rules 
on how much food the prisoners on Robben Island could get.

When I visited and saw those things written on the signs, 
my jaw dropped, because there was represented a perpetuation of racist difference instead of what Mandela stood for, which was to embrace our common humanity.

It is therefore right that we should pay tribute to all those people who showed such courage to stand up for him, for his ideals and for the ANC at a time when it was neither fashionable nor popular to 
do so.

Mandela’s passing also reminds us that many of the great changes we have now come to take for granted – and, oh, don’t we take them for granted – came not through consensus, but in and through struggle and through politics. Margaret Beckett, the former Foreign Secretary, was absolutely right to make the point about the power of politics to utterly transform our world and people’s lives.

Out of all the words that have been used to describe Nelson Mandela two stand out for 
me: magnanimity and reconciliation.

After those long years of imprisonment, he showed magnanimity at the very moment when he had forced 
the apartheid regime to grant him his freedom by refusing to yield, and he preached reconciliation.

Why? It was because he knew it was the only way he could achieve his vision of a non-racist and democratic South Africa – it was his leadership that made that possible.

I simply say that one of the best ways in which we can honour Mandela’s memory is to let his example stand as a lesson to the leaders in other conflicts in the world today, because, like Nelson Mandela, they face two simple choices.

The easy path is to remain a victim. The more courageous path is to say to those they lead and to the world: “This is what we must now do in the interests of peace.”

Nelson Mandela once said: “No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or 
his religion.

“People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love.”

May he be granted in death the peace for which he campaigned so hard in life.

• Hilary Benn is the Labour MP for Leeds Central who spoke in the Commons debate that paid tribute to Nelson Mandela. This is an edited version.