Study offers picture of love in the digital age

One in three young adults (34 per cent) would delete all images of their partner on social media sites such as Facebook or Twitter if their relationship broke down, new research has found.

Two-fifths (42 per cent) would “unfriend” their ex-boyfriend or girlfriend within a month of a split, while almost a third (31 per cent) said they would extend the cull and remove all online contact with their ex-partner’s friends and family, according to the study.

Behavioural experts said the findings showed young people were now using social media as “decisive means” to confirm the end of a relationship.

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But the YouGov poll of more than 2,000 adults aged 18 to 34 also found nearly a fifth (17 per cent) thought it was acceptable to “stalk” a former partner’s social media page to check if they were in a new relationship.

Two in three (65 per cent) said they would flaunt their new unattached status by changing their Facebook profile to “single” within the first month of a break-up, while one in five (18 per cent) would change their status to “in a relationship” if they found someone new in the same period.

Psychologist Professor Craig Jackson, from Birmingham City University, said of the research: “These findings confirm what many psychologists have suspected about those who have grown up surrounded by social media; that they fall in “digital love” quickly – that is, to provide online confirmation and validation of a new relationship.

“But are just as capable of falling out of it quickly too, and with some clinical precision.”

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