where relaxingis a problem
For Mr Bland, relaxing at home is easier said than done. "When the children have their friends round it's like a kindergarten in here."
And for stressed-out Miss Harrison the demands are just as great if not more so. She says she is intent on staying put until the right property comes along.
She was offered a choice of four four-bedroom Incommunities homes in 2008 all of which she turned down, saying they were not big enough. She also refused a large private sector home.