This is what to expect from Hope Gap, co-funded by Screen Yorkshire and filmed partly in Leeds and Doncaster

Annette Bening did not initially want to make her new film.

The American Beauty actress mulled over the script for Hope Gap and decided against taking the part. “I thought it was really strong and original, painful, very well-written, but I couldn’t make it work as a film because I thought there were too many words,” the 62-year-old says over Zoom from her home in Los Angeles.

“The director, Bill Nicholson, had written me a beautiful and very thoughtful letter and talked about how it was based on his own life, and my instinct at the moment was ‘I cannot tell this man that I think there are too many words, that is rude and presumptuous, so the better thing to do is just to pass’.

“So I passed, and then about a week later I thought to myself, ‘That was so stupid, why did I do that? I should have just called him up’. So I did and he said ‘Of course, don’t worry’. He’s a very charming man, and so we ended up meeting halfway in New York and we just went from there.”

The movie, co-funded by Screen Yorkshire and filmed partly on location in Leeds and Doncaster, is based on the real-life experience of the British film-maker, who is best known as a writer for his work on Gladiator, Les Miserables and Unbroken.

Nicholson was a young man when, after three decades of marriage, his father announced he was leaving his mother for another woman, triggering a family crisis with him caught in the middle.

“It’s the end of your world, when the gods of your world, which is your mother and your father, break up,” he says. “And you’re dealing with it for the rest of your life. When you’re a child in relation to your parents, you’re always a child, and here I am, at my advanced age, and I’m still a child in relation to my parents so the therapy never ends. I’m more detached now and I was able to see it in a cooler way, and that I think made me able to be more truthful, more honest and more hopeful.”

The film stars Bening and Bill Nighy as couple Grace and Edward, while Josh O’Connor plays their son, Jamie.

“What is great about the director Bill is it was always quite clear that, while he was inspired by his story, he wanted it to break out of being personal,” O’Connor says.

“He wanted to make it more universal and accessible, so in a weird way it never felt like I was under pressure to be accurate with how he was or how he responded. Much like my only other experience of playing a real person on The Crown, we are fictionalising a truth, we are taking it away from that world.”

For Bening, she appreciated the way Grace responded to the shocking news that her marriage was over. “I like how impossible she is, I love that. I feel like this is what women have been complaining about in terms of storytelling, that we want women to be written in a way we somehow can identify.

"Not that every woman is like Grace, but she has these contradictions inside of her and she can be absolutely impossible and I can identify with that, I can identify with the idea that there are times that we have that response to things and that’s human and that’s part of who we are.

"But I also thought it was really important that Bill Nighy’s character and his point of view was supported completely, that both points of view could be true and then that is great dramatic conflict.”

Caught in the middle of that conflict is O’Connor’s Jamie, who is left as a sounding board and go-between for both sides. “I always think that is the difficulty with any sort of break-up, be it a divorce after many years of being together or even short-term break-ups, more often than not, one person is willing to work at something and sees a glimmer of hope, or sees a way through, and the other person doesn’t and this is why it’s so hard.”

Jamie is thoughtful, sensitive and pensive, like many of O’Connor’s other roles, including as Prince Charles in The Crown, a lonely gay farmer in God’s Own Country, and half of a couple dealing with infertility in Only You.

“There definitely seems to be a sort of magnetic pull towards roles that are either questioning or exploring the difficulties, and benefits sometimes, of masculinity and toxic masculinity, in its most traditional forms and its more progressive forms,” he says.

“Only You had that, God’s Own Country had that in abundance, The Crown definitely has that, and when I read Hope Gap for the first time I cried. I don’t often have that reaction, but I cried. Mental health, particularly for young men, is something that I’m finding myself exploring in my own life but also through characters and that was something that really resonated in this project.”

Hope Gap is in cinemas and on Curzon Home Cinema now.

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