Why is it that female politicians are the only ones who quit at the peak of their powers? - Daxa Patel

So as soon as it was announced I registered, I mean how can I not run when it is for such a worthy cause, and it is in my own city?

My training had begun and I wanted to add to my collection of running medals, having run my very first marathon in London in 2018. However, it was not to be following an injury.

As a leadership and business coach I encourage clients to go for their dreams but when it comes to letting go of something that matters, it is exceptionally hard.

My decision to not run the marathon is not on a par with the decision of the leader of the SNP, but though I do not agree with her politics, I do admire the awareness and courage she demonstrated by admitting that it was her time to leave front line politics.

For someone who has spent the best part of her professional life dedicated to public service and politics, one can only imagine how many sleepless nights she must have endured before she came to the decision she did.

Like the SNP leader, the New Zealand Prime Minister, Jacinda Ardern declared that she did not have enough in the tank to continue.

Seeing two high profile women leave public life did make me wonder, is this because women, unlike men, have to endure a whole host of challenges which men may not experience?

I am referring to the glass ceiling that sadly, still presents a challenge.

I also wondered if women are more sensitive and less bullish to withstand the heat so to speak.

I doubt very much Boris Johnson can see that he outstayed his welcome, is this a man vs. woman thing or has this something to do with heightened emotional intelligence?

The ability to know when to pull back and let go requires the ability to reflect on your actions and the impact that has on the wider cause, as well as on your own life.

I cannot recall any male politician quitting front line politics while at the height of their career unless they were forced to do so. I must stress I am not advocating that women have a heightened sense of emotional intelligence or courage than men but I am struck by how the media have not applauded these women for their courage but have instead seen this as a ‘women’ thing.

For people in power, being sturdy to withstand the political storm is a must have quality, but it might help for all leaders, including politicians to know when they must give way to others to take on the baton from them. The fact is the world continues regardless of whether we are in charge or not, so why not show some humility and grace.

Respect to those who can see the bigger picture and know when to quit.

Daxa Manhar Patel is a solicitor, author and executive coach.