Lifting as you climb: why more senior women in law should help those who are junior
I decided when I was more senior, I wanted to help junior lawyers, whether they
were from my firm or another and make them feel comfortable enough to ask for
help.
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Hide AdAs I have become more experienced, I have found myself being the most senior
lawyer on cases, sometimes in circumstances where I realise the solicitor acting for
the other party is out of their depth. Rather than exploit this, I believe it is possible to
assist the other lawyer while still doing the best for my client. In my industry, this is
an unusual approach.
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privileged. I know that more than most as I started as a Legal Assistant in the 1990s
and had to work hard to get to where I am now. I was lucky that a couple of people
on my way up gave me a chance and believed in me. With their help and by having a
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Hide Adstrong work ethic, I soon became a leading Child Support Law expert and by the
mid-2000s I was being invited to give advice to the House of Commons select
committee, advise MPs and write amendments to bills that ultimately became law.
Earlier this year, I was in a hearing on a complicated case against another lawyer
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Hide Adwho I had never met. It was clear she was out of her depth. It was also evident to the
judge who became frustrated. The young lawyer got increasingly flustered and I felt it
unfair she had been put in that position, so I intervened and told the judge what I
thought she was trying to say. I steered the hearing away from the difficulties and
moved the judge onto more comfortable ground.
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Hide AdI appreciate another lawyer might have let it go, watched her flounder, scored the
points and gone home. I could have humiliated her in court, but I could not do that
with a clear conscience.
Out of the blue, later that day, I received a call from the solicitor concerned, who
wanted to thank me for what I had done. We spent half an hour on the phone
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Hide Adtogether and I felt happy that I had helped somebody. Whilst she was my opponent,
she was also a decent individual and lawyer. A few days later I also received a text
thanking me for my help saying that she hoped she would become a lawyer similar
to me one day.
I work in family law on cases that are often highly personal and emotional, so we
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Hide Adshould try to resolve them without being adversarial. Helping others does not mean
you compromise your case. Yes, I am there to get the best outcome for my client but
if we can do that by working with the other side, that is my preference. This way of
working in the law benefits everyone. Lawyers work together, juniors learn and
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I believe in the motto “you do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
When I retire in the future, I would like to do so with the knowledge that I have
assisted in setting others off on the right career path, helping to make the system
better overall.